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Friday
Jan222010

What are intentions anyway?

"Most new discoveries are suddenly-seen things that were always there."
-Suzanne K. Langer 

This is one of the pages from my Dream Book for the Art & Dreams Bound retreat.  As I was working on this page last night, I was thinking about the retreat itself, wondering who I will have the honor to meet and how our time will be spent.  Sharing dreams, creating art, building bonds... I get so excited just thinking about the possibilities... the Dreams that will emerge and the Intentions that will be set. 

Intentions have been on my mind a great deal lately.  People all over the interwebs are still all a buzz about resolutions, intentions and the differences or non-differences.  The last few years, I've set my intentions on my birthday instead of New Years.  It makes me feel like there's not so much pressure and I like that. 

But really, what are intentions and when do they matter?  We've all heard the phrase, "The road to hell was paved with good intentions."  Right?  I hate that phrase, but in a sense it can be true.  Intentions don't mean a whole lot if they're shared after the fact.  In my exerience, letting our intentions be known up front opens more doors, clears more paths and also just seems to make things easier to accomplish. (And who doesn't like easy?!)

This really hit home with me the other day when I was driving and had been cut off a few too many times by insensitive, jerk-face drivers already and one insensitive, jerk-face driver in particular got under my skin. They didn't cut me off, but they didn't let their intentions be known and it held me up as well as a line of traffic behind me. 

I needed to make a left turn.  The car in question was coming towards me.  I sat there with my blinker on waiting (somewhat) patiently for the car to drive on by.  But it didn't.  It slowed, but not enough that I could safely make my turn in front of it and the seven or eight cars right behind them. 

So the car gets closer and what do they do?  They slow and turn down the same street I'm waiting to turn down. 

Never signaling their turn. 

Never letting their intentions be known. 

I, of course, got all pissy and spewed some expletives under my breath and went on my way.  But I didn't stop thinking about it.  It stuck with me for some reason, so I decided to try and look at the situation from a different perspective, one of intention.  It made me see intention in a different light and I realized then that intention isn't meant to keep to yourself. 

I don't set intentions just for myself.  I set them to give others an idea of what to expect when interacting with me.  And if I don't let my intentions be known, I can't expect anyone to get me.

This led to thoughts of the Art & Dreams Bound retreat in May and my intentions with regard to how it goes, how many people will be there, what they will get out of the retreat, what I share with them at the retreat and ultimately what I intend to give at the retreat and what I intend for every person present to receive.

I’m taking the Mondo Beyondo e-course right now and I’m feeling the nudge to be very clear both inwardly and outwardly about my dreams and my intentions.  The jerk-face driver, that I'm now grateful for, reinforced that.

I’ve had dreams of being a part of something like Art & Dreams Bound since I was 15 and went to a leadership seminar that my band teacher took some of us students to.  There was a motivational speaker there that blew me away.  Being able to inspire people the way he did has been a dream I’ve tucked inside and sort of kept to myself all these years. 

Kelly asking me to be a part of her first Purple Cottage retreat was a big step towards making my secret dream a reality. It’s truly a Mondo Beyondo dream for me, and there is nothing I want more than for everyone present to be inspired by the experience at the retreat and in order to give everyone a better idea of what to expect at the retreat, I want to share my intentions.  

My intention is to create an atmosphere (with a lot of help from Kelly) of comfort and safety, where you can let down your guard and relax in the knowledge that you can play and indulge in conversation and creativity, you can get messy with art supplies and find joy in the sounds of paper being torn and soul nourishing laughter. 

I intend to share creative tips, tricks, techniques and prompts that you can incorporate into page after page of art journaling and I intend to give you time to relish in the tranquility of the retreat site. 

Your Dream Book will be your little memento that will serve as a reminder, a guidebook, a reservoir of hope, a repository of brilliant ideas, a place to tuck away the little pieces that make up your creative dreams and wishes.

My intention is for you to leave the retreat full of inspiration, ready to continue following your bliss and dreaming big, creative dreams.  And I intend to cheer you on every step of the way. 

I hope you’ll consider joining Kelly and I in May. There is only space at the retreat site for 24 dreamers and I would love for one of them to be you. 

There is much more information on The Purple Cottage website

I can’t wait to learn more about your creative dreams!!! 

xo,

Carmen

Reader Comments (11)

I wished I lived closer, would love the retreat!!

January 22, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterAmelia

I am always setting goals for myself, but I find that going public with them puts too much pressure on me, I tend to buckle under pressure. I'm talking here about personal goals...as far as artistic goals...I just want to be creative and live each day in an artful way!

January 22, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterCARMELINA LOUNSBURY

Ditto the living closer comment!

I love how you found a lesson in that jerk-face driver, & used it to tell the world what your intentions are with The Art & Dreams Retreat. The world needs to know, because your intentions, your gifts & your talents are too awesome to keep to yourself!

And by the way, I learned about a religion that's only practiced in Florida when my Dad moved down there over ten years ago. The only thing people who follow that religion believe in is NOT turning on their blinker when they need to turn. Except for my Papa, who leaves his blinker on for miles after turning because he can't hear it. Either way, you're screwed as a driver in Florida.

Thanks Ladies. I wish you all lived closer too!

And Michelle, thank you so much for your encouragement!

xo,
Carmen

January 23, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterCarmen

So true Carmen! great post. I too am realising the power of speaking my intentions to make it more real, and so that other's can know me better.
Thank You

January 23, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterChrissy Foreman C

I love the way you have clarified the difference between dreams and intentions: that's going to be my thought to ponder for the day. And I have the feeling I (and everyone around me) will be the richer for it.

January 23, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterKat

I like the idea that you dont feel the need to make new year's resolutions with everyone else and maybe later in the year would be less pressure. I like to set goals instead like around Feb. my creative goals are separate. I wish
this retreat was closer also. I love the orange you used on this page it is one of my favorite colors

January 28, 2010 | Unregistered Commentercheryl

oooh i giggled at michelle's comment! being from south florida, i can completely vouch for the existence of that religion;)

beautiful and thoughtful words about dreams and intentions carmen! you are so gifted!! enjoy your weekend:) xox...jenn

January 29, 2010 | Unregistered Commenternoodle and lou

"I don't set intentions just for myself. I set them to give others an idea of what to expect when interacting with me. And if I don't let my intentions be known, I can't expect anyone to get me."

This.is.powerful! I so needed to read it. Thank you.

January 29, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterErin Wilson

i ate up every bit of this! i'm a very impulsive person, often wrapping up the intention and the doing at the same moment, but your story about the lousy driver really drove home, so to speak, a very good reason for spelling out our intentions. if not for ourselves, then at least for others! wish i could be a little bug on the wall in your class - it's going to be a great one, i know it!

January 30, 2010 | Unregistered Commenteraimee

can't wait to share this dream with you. it's going to be fantabulous ! :-)

February 1, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterKelly

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